Hi, my name is Gay Hendricks.  As the author (and co-author with my wife Kathlyn) of nine
books on relationships, I'm often called to appear on television and radio programs as
a relationship expert. You may have seen us working with couples on one of our "OPRAH" appearances or discussing Hilary and Bill's marriage on CNN.  

Wherever we go, we're always asked how to solve the same fundamental relationship
problems that everybody faces...whether you're married, single or divorced. Wherever
you are in your relationship journey, I have some exciting news for you... Regardless of
your past history or current status, you can create the relationship of your dreams.  
I absolutely guarantee we can help you do it.

John Gray, Ph.D., (Men Are From Mars…) says,
“Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks are masters of the art of
intimacy.”




Don't worry if you're a bit skeptical.  It's a bold claim, and coming from most people, I probably wouldn't believe it either.  But I've got over 20,000 reasons to be confident about my claim that you can create the relationship of your dreams.  That's how many people we've helped do it. If you're willing to invest a few moments of your time to find out if I'm for real, I promise you won't regret the time we spend together.






“Most relationship programs I’ve seen are like re-arranging the deck chairs on the Titanic---maybe useful for a while, but they don’t get at the root of the problem. The Hendricks program is like taking a helicopter off the deck of the Titanic. It takes you into a completely new zone of possibility.” Eddie Erlandson, M.D


First, let me ask you to accept, forgive and love yourself for whatever relationship pains you’ve experienced in the past. If you’re like me, you didn’t get much if any training, coaching or mentoring in how to create and nurture a close relationship.

For example…

• How much did your parents teach you about building a loving, intimate relationship?
• How much training or education in relationship building did you get in elementary, junior high, or high school?
• How much did you learn in college or graduate school?

For most of us, the answer ranges from ‘very little’ to ‘none.’

That's one reason why so many people have problems finding, creating, and maintaining good solid relationships. But, it doesn't have to be that way.

My  wife, Katie, and I have created The Relationship Solution just for you. It's the result of nearly 25 years of highly successful work with tens of thousands of singles and couples wanting to find the solution to lasting love.
The Relationship Solution is not just another self-help program full of empty promises and feel-good platitudes. Rather, it's a comprehensive multi-part learning experience that reveals everything you need to know to find, create, and maintain a truly joyful relationship.

Consider it your basic, secondary, and graduate level education in relationships. (Half the people who buy the program are therapists, coaches and business professionals who use the skills both in their own lives and in their practices.)
When you take advantage of The Relationship Solution...

You'll find out which of the deadliest intimacy-destroying mistakes you're making,
and how to avoid them. Everyone makes mistakes, but until you know what they are,
you're bound to keep making the same ones over and over.

You'll discover what you need to find in an ideal partner to create the perfect
relationship for you (everybody's different, here's how to find someone with
"the right differences")

You'll finally understand why, when you say one thing, he or she hears something
totally different (and how to talk about, even the most difficult, subjects clearly and
concisely without hurting each others feelings)

You'll learn how to eliminate blame – the #1 relationship-destroyer – from all aspects
of your lives

You'll discover the specific simple actions that make a monumental difference in
your relationship and level of day-to-day happiness. None of those actions take
longer than 10 seconds, but if you don’t know how to do them you can string a
problem out for 10 years of unhappiness.

Of course, the extra tools in The Singles Solution work equally well with couples, so we encourage couples to take part in it after they've completed The Love and Intimacy Solution.

When we created The Relationship Solution, we decided to hold nothing back. Our goal was to pour everything into the program we'd learned in more than 25 years of working with tens of thousands of people. In fact, we were originally going to design it as a complete training system for relationship therapists and counselors. We had already trained more than a thousand professionals in the skills, and in the process we had discovered that meangingful relationship training is almost never given in graduate schools and medical schools.

One day, not long after talking to the studio audience on Oprah's show and watching how positively they reacted to our ideas, we realized that nobody had ever made these powerful, yet easily-mastered concepts available to people in general. That's when we decided to change the way people learn about successful relationships. The Relationship Solution is the result.

When you learn what’s in The Relationship Solution, you'll feel more love, more creativity and more harmony in your close relationships than you've dreamed possible.We guarantee it. How can I offer such a "no-questions-asked" guarantee? The answer is simple, and it’s not just because Katie and I have been helping people create miraculous breakthroughs in thousands of relationships for over 25 years. It’s really because we've been using the exact same relationship tools and concepts in our own marriage.

Everything in the program has been kitchen-and-bedroom-tested by us---we’re our own best customers. The tools in the program have helped us through the ups and downs of raising kids, going from being broke to being wealthy, handling conflicts and you name it. The tools work, and we know that in our bones. Just to give you one example, it’s been well over 10 years since either of us has spoken a harsh or critical word to the other. Can you imagine what it feels like to go even 10 days without being criticized? Now imagine 10 years of blissful freedom from negative energy in your close relationship.

That’s the same kind of magic we want you to create in your relationship life! Before you start thinking we are super-human, though, let me assure you it wasn't always that way. In my twenties and early thirties I struggled in one relationship after another. So did Katie. I felt like a total failure in relationships, especially when I compared my lack of success in love with my thriving career as a psychologist, professor and author of several books. In my thirties I had just about given up on finding true love. Then, in 1979 I had a big wake-up moment after a painful break-up. In a flash of insight I suddenly realized that every single relationship problem I'd ever had boiled down to several simple things I was doing wrong:

I didn't know how to make a real commitment.

I didn't know how to communicate honestly, especially about my feelings.

I didn't know how to solve problems without blaming myself or the other person.

I often replayed unconscious patterns from my early life (for example, I attracted
women who were substance abusers and would try to "save" them from their
self-destructive habits.

In my ‘wake-up’ moment I realized that this pattern was based on the first years of my life, when I must have unconsciously felt responsible for saving my loving but substance-abusing mother from trying to kill herself.)

After I had this insight, I made a vow that I would eliminate all those destructive patterns in the next relationship I got into.  Exactly a month after I made this vow, and just a few days short of my thirty-fifth birthday, my life took a magnificent turn for the better: I met and fell in love with Katie. Together, we committed ourselves to creating a relationship in which:

Nobody blamed or criticized.

We communicated clearly to each other about all our feelings and what we wanted.

We shared responsibilities.

We made time for being close to each other and for our own individual creative activities.

The next few years were a rocket-ride of intense learning. We discovered the Five Secrets we share with you in The Relationship Solution, and we invented the powerful relationship building tools we‚ll show you how to use in the program.

We weren't perfect by any means (and still aren't), so it took us the better part of three years to create the kind of relationship we'd originally envisioned. Old habits die hard, and both of us have a stubborn streak that would get a grip on us now and then, causing us to dig in our heels for weeks at a time.  

What really helped was the set of tools we developed. As we learned to use them, they gave us the power over our old habits. First, we were able to eliminate blame and criticism. This in itself was remarkable, because both of us had grown up in extremely critical families. In the early years of our relationship, we considered it a cause for celebration if we could get through a whole day without blaming or criticizing each other. Now, though, it's been years since either one of us has said anything critical or blameful to the other. We also gained the ability to communicate clearly, keep our promises to each other and open the flow of creative energy in both of us. These tools are the same ones you learn in The Relationship Solution, the tools that helped us bring the relationship of our dreams into living reality.


After showing several hundred couples and singles how to use the tools, we started teaching our techniques to other therapists. Soon, it was commonplace for us to have thirty therapists packed into our office or living room. One night, sitting in front of the fireplace on a chilly winter evening, we decided to write a book about everything we'd learned. We felt that the concepts and tools we'd discovered were so important that they deserved a wider audience. It took a year or so to write Conscious Loving, and another year to see it published. Then, something happened that really changed our lives: the producers from ‘Oprah’ called. A few days later we flew to Chicago to tape her show. Suddenly we were presenting the same life-changing tools to ten million people that we'd previously been sharing with thirty people in our living room. Since that first Oprah show, we've been around the world over thirty times teaching people how to create lasting love.   


Here Are Key Details About What’s In The Program…

The cost of the new EarthFriendly Edition is $125, but you can get it during the introductory period for $97. Compare that to the paper-and-plastic edition's price of $189. You'll learn the same vitally important relationship techniques we teach in our $500 workshops, but for only $97. Remember, also, The Relationship Solution is 100% guaranteed. If you for some reason you decide that it's not right for you, just let us know anytime within 60 days of your purchase. We'll immediately and cheerfully give you a complete refund.

Close your eyes and picture a life filled with warmth, love, and passion.

If that’s not what you’re living right now, you need to start somewhere, sometime. I urge you to make this the time. It's all available to you right now.

So click here to claim your personal copy of The Relationship Solution now!

With love,
Gay Hendricks, Ph.D.

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